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WHY I STOPPED GIVING ADVICE TO PEOPLE AND HOW IT HAVE HELPED SHAPE MY LIFE IN...

I know you really want to know why I decided to stop giving advice, but I will like to quickly say, I didn't totally stop giving advice, I only contribute when it is asked for and here is why.

Have you noticed, people love free things but don't value it?

There is a huge difference between love and value.

You can love something yet won't value it, but you can't value anything without loving it.

People appreciate more what they asked for than what they didn't. There will even pay if it's that important to them. Only about 10% or less truly love and value what they didn't ask for. Studies have shown that people value what they struggled to get.

So why then will I have to give out an advice if it's not asked for.

I have done it several on different occasions.

I gave same advice to two different people with same issue. The one that asked for it appreciated, worked with it and the one that didnt ask did the opposite. When I got to ask again what I told her, she couldn't even remember.

If it comes at no cost but with high quality, they will love it but won't value it. But if it comes at a cost with same high quality, then will love and value it. Same content but different approach.

Knowing this have help reduce unnecessary stress in trying to help everyone. Helping only those who need the solution you have is less stressful and less time consuming.

Try it out also.